Adopting Powerful ‘Universe Conspires in Helping You’ Mindset

When you have a clear intention or desire and take action towards it, the universe aligns in mysterious ways to support you in achieving your goals or fulfilling your wishes.

"When you want something, the entire universe conspires to help you achieve it."

This famous line from The Alchemist sounds like something from a fairytale, a little like magic. And in a way, it is. But not in a wave-a-wand-Bibbidi-Bobbidi-Boo-your-dream-comes-true kind of way. It’s more like natural magic, if you will. Like when you plant a seed, water it, give it sun, check on it, and trust that even though you can’t see the roots forming, something is happening underneath. Quite simply, you trust life to do its thing. That’s how this mindset works.

Believing the universe is working with you and for you doesn’t make your life suddenly perfect. But it can shift how you meet each moment. It can help you soften when things feel rough and uncertain. It makes it easier to get back up after challenges and to keep going even when the path isn’t clear. It can help appreciate everyday beauty around you. You begin to trust that the right things will meet you, not because you’re lucky, but because you’re open and paying attention to chances and opportunities.

This way of thinking sounds beautiful, but may not always be easy to hold on to. When things aren’t going your way, it can feel impossible to believe the universe is conspiring in helping you. Maybe it even feels a bit naïve. Unrealistic. Wishful thinking. A form of denial. Or even pretending everything is fine when it’s not. There are ways you can adopt this mindset without simply waiting passively or falling into the trap of toxic positivity.

The Universe is Loyal, but it Follows Your Lead

Imagine the universe as your most loyal companion. Not a fairy godmother, but more like your dog, if you have one (or have ever known a really good one). Dogs respond to your energy, your consistency, your cues:

• Throw the ball, and they’ll bring it back. Do it again and again, and they learn the game.

• Give them scraps from the table once or twice, and they’ll start hovering at dinner every night, waiting.

They don’t judge. They just respond to patterns.

The universe works in a very similar way. It pays more attention to your actions than your wishes. It reads your consistency, not your daydreams:

• You can say you want to write a book. But if you’re spending every evening scrolling instead of writing, the message the universe receives is: She’s choosing distraction.

• You can say you want more abundance. But if you complain about money every day without checking your spending or savings, the energy says: He’s still engaging with lack.

This isn’t about blame or punishment. But it can give you clarity. The universe is loyal to your habits, following your leads. If you throw no balls, no balls will be brought back to you. The more you throw and the more your dog catches, the better you throw and the faster and more accurately they catch

Related reads:  Beautiful Life Lessons to Learn From Dogs and 10 Fun Life Lessons to Learn From Cats

How to Co-Create with the Universe (Instead of Just Hoping for the Best)

In this friendship, you both have a part to play. After all, friendship is a two-way street.

1. Your Street is One of Clarity and Action

Vague wishes tend to get vague results.

• Saying "I want to be happy" is a bit like telling your dog, "Fetch!" without actually throwing anything. They stand there confused. Eventually, bringing you any and everything you possibly thought you threw.

• But if you say, "I want a creative job near the ocean where I feel alive" – a clear ball has been thrown. Your dog has something to respond to and an idea of the ball you're after.

Try this: Write down one desire as if you're explaining it to a golden retriever (or loyal friend who has the means to help you): simple, sensory, and specific.

• "I want to feel the sun on my face during work breaks, like I’m on a seaside balcony."

Then, take one tiny action that feels aligned with that desire:

• Research remote jobs in coastal towns.

• Sketch that balcony in your journal. Start a Pinterest board of what that life might look like.

Every conscious decision you make shows the universe you’re serious about your goals. As Michael A. Singer wisely put it:

"Do the work as though it were given to you by the universe itself - because it was."

Recommended read: Revealing the Power of Goals and Dreams through Journaling and Greatest Benefits and Themes of Self-Discovery and Self-Reflection Journaling

2. The Universe’s Street Guides Yours and Surprises You

Sometimes what the universe gives you isn’t what you asked for, but it is something that gets you closer or shifts your direction in ways you couldn’t have planned. You might call these moments synchronicities. Or nudges. Or strange timing. Even obstacles.

• You think about writing a book, and suddenly a friend mentions a writing retreat.

• You lose a job, but meet someone at a networking event who opens a new door.

• You miss a flight, only to meet someone at the airport who later becomes a valuable mentor.

• You feel the urge to call someone, and that conversation turns into something meaningful.

Try this: Start keeping a little log (a notebook, or a note in your phone) where you jot down patterns you notice. Coincidences. Repeating numbers. Conversations that feel oddly timely. Ideas that pop into your head mid-shower or just before bed. You’ll start to see a thread, and that builds trust.

What to Do When It Feels Like the Universe Isn’t Listening

Even the closest friends have misunderstandings and moments of miscommunication. When it feels like the universe has gone quiet, gently ask yourself:

1. What energy am I putting out?

Are you acting from a place of fear (thoughts like "this will never work") or faith / openness (thoughts like "I’m open to surprises")? Pets can pick up on tension and move away, as does energy.

2. Am I showing up for the things I say I want?

You want change, but have you been taking the necessary steps (no matter how small)? If not, the universe could be getting mixed signals.

• You won't become financially free if you never save.

• You won't become a runner if you never go for a run.

• You won't get healthier if you aren't making lifestyle changes.

• You won't find love if you never put yourself out there.

The universe loves momentum, not martyrdom. Similarly, ask yourself if you have been taking the opportunities presented to you, or have you ignored them or been too scared to take them?

3. Am I recognising detours for what they are?

Rejections, delays, and unexpected detours aren't proof the universe has abandoned you. Instead, see them as redirections to better things. Trust these detours. The universe's 'no' often means:

• Not this way might be keeping you safe (protection)

• Not yet might mean something needs to be planted or grow first (timing)

• This didn’t work out could mean I have something better on the horizon (an upgrade)

What’s this moment teaching you? What skill, strength, or story might you carry forward from it? Even if you can’t see it now, this experience could help you navigate a similar challenge in the future or even help someone else. When you don't get the job, thank the universe for leading you to a better one. When you miss the bus, express gratitude for its protection. The more you listen, the better you'll become at understanding these detours and synchronicities.

Recommended reads: Understanding the Fear of Change and How to Overcome It and Embracing Failure Is A Great Life Teacher For Growth and Ultimate Guide to Better Understand and Expand Comfort Zones

Your Invitation to Adopt the Powerful Universe Conspires in Helping You Mindset

Believing the universe is on your side and conspiring to help you doesn’t mean everything goes smoothly all the time. It means you stop trying to force your way through life. You start listening more. Noticing more. Trusting more. Flowing more.

The universe is your loyal friend. It knows your heart better than you sometimes do, but it won't override your free will. Start making time for the things that are important to you. Show the universe where your interest lies by channelling your energy there. Take action, and leave space for magic. So, starting today:

• Be clear. Say what you want out loud. Write it down. Be specific.

Say what you want like you’re ordering coffee: "I’ll take joy, with a side of adventure, topped with financial ease, please."

Find a peaceful spot and think about what you truly want to achieve – you could meditate, journal at your home altar, or spend time in nature. Why not create a vision board for your intention or desire?

• Be consistent. Show up daily, with devotion, as if you’re feeding a beloved pet. Look into 'habit stacking' and habit tracking to help you align your actions with your goals and purpose. Don’t be afraid to celebrate yourself.

• Be open. Let the universe surprise you. Even if the gift looks messy or unexpected at first, don’t dismiss it straight away. There may be gold hidden in it. Trust there’s a reason you’re being guided down this particular path. Consider saying affirmations for surrender and trusting in divine timing.

You’re already co-creating, with every choice, every thought, every "I’ll try again tomorrow." The universe is always conspiring, not just for you, but with you.

Related read: Your Invitation to Live an Authentic Rich Life and Trusting the Process: Why it Feels Impossible (and How to Do It Anyway)

“Know that everything will happen at just the right time, at just the right place, with just the right people.” ~ Wayne Dyer

Will You Accept the Invitation?

If this mindset is resonating with you, then start adopting it today. Write down one thing you’re calling in, and one tiny action you can take to support it. The universe is not against you. It’s meeting you halfway. Guiding your street. Make sure you’re not starting at a dead end because this is the only way you think you can get there.

When you release the need to micromanage every outcome, you create space for miracles. Watch how the unseen hands of grace guide you, often in ways more profound than you could’ve ever planned. You’ll feel less stress and anxiety when you focus on what’s within your control. You’ll feel more at peace when you believe the universe is taking care of things beyond your influence. And not only that, but you’ll find resilience when faced with rejections and challenges because you’ll know they’re simply opportunities for growth and learning, redirecting you to something even better.

[Updated in 2025]

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Affirmation: I trust the universe’s timing. My clarity and action meet its guidance, creating magic beyond my plans.

To-do: Write one desire as if you’re putting in an order (simple, sensory, specific).

Journal Prompts: Look back at a time when life redirected you. How did what felt like a 'no' or detour later reveal itself as protection, timing, or an upgrade? What might this teach you about current obstacles?

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